Check YOUR Own Grammar before You Judge Mine

Truth was everyone is so quick to judge about one another but not really looking at the bigger picture of making sure their hands are cleaning before they started pointing their fingers at other people. But when it comes to grammar that really took the cake!

Now, to be totally honest, I have been underestimated by numerous of people telling me that I have bad grammar. Ever since I first started blogging, I had a blogger commenting that she is touched by my story but my grammar is terrible. I didn’t really understand it because I really became so upset about what she commented. But that was just the beginning.

For the second, I was told once again that I have bad grammar and this time, it’s coming from social media groups I was commenting about a TV show I tuned in every Tuesday. Another individual was comparing my comment to somebody else’s comment and I became upset even more. My flesh wants me to tell her saying, “Look here, Miss Know It All! This isn’t a classroom. This isn’t school. I don’t need to be corrected” As much as I want to do something to hurt the person, I couldn’t even do it because I have too big of a heart to do a foolish like that.

Being told that I have bad grammar made me feel like I was doubting myself and thinking that I was dumb. I was sad I needed to talk to someone that truly understands me. On that same day, I decided to reach out to my former English and I told her about my problem and I asked her does having bad grammar made me look like I am less than anybody.

She taught me a valuable lesson and that was Grammar is something I can improve. It does not make me less intelligent than the next person. However, people look at me differently when I use improper grammar. That really make sense.

To everyone who were told that you have bad grammar, let me encourage you with some words of wisdom.

When your last breath arrives, grammar can do nothing. It isn’t fair that people judge other people by their grammar so it’s best for them to check their grammar because they’ll never know what they’re missing. Look on the bright side. David Ogilvy said, “I don’t know the rules of grammar you’re trying to persuade people to do something, or buy something, it seems to me you should use their language, the language in which they think. We try to write in the vernacular.” No offense to him, but that’s a strong point.

As I close, please know and understand that your grammar reflects your image. Good or bad, you have made an impression. And like all impressions, you are in total control.


Who Is Mz. Keshia?

Wykeshia McCallister, b.k.a. Keshia, 28, born in Zachary, Louisiana, and raised in Clinton, Louisiana. Grew up as a God-fearing, talented lady with a love for creativity, poetry, and most of all, God. Mz. Keshia grew up singing and playing the tambourine, and worship dancing in her church and grade schools.

In 2006, she was a Salutatorian of Second Chance Academy. In June 2010, she graduated from St. Amant Academy, and in December 2010 she graduated from Louisiana Technical College as well.

Throughout the hard trials and tribulations, Mz. Keshia is greatly known as the Diamond Princess of Inspiration. She had eventually started her own business on August 16, 2013. During that time, she first made a good success by creating church programs for choir anniversary at church and everyone were very amazed by her marvelous works.

Although It was challenging, but Wykeshia always keep her faith up and her small business lifted up in prayer. In December of 2014, Wykeshia created the first logo for one of her social media clients. Even though she hasn’t done logos before, but she made great progress. Immediately, Wykeshia’s Creations was created her very own logo: WC with diamond studs on both letters. “It’s not abbreviated as W.C. for bathroom. It’s a logo that represents classiness, creativity, and professionalism to inspire others,” explains Wykeshia.

During the time, Wykeshia was offered to do a very first radio interview with Simply The Dime Blog Talk Radio who is owned by Ms. Erika Harrison a.k.a. Rika Dime and immediately became partners with Simply The Dime.

Wykeshia’s passions are poetry, blogging, singing, playing the tambourine, graphic design, listening to Simply The Dime, learning more about the word of God, and being a Rainbow in everybody’s cloud. Her hopes and dreams aspire Mz. Keshia to be a successful entrepreneur, and whatever her plans are is in God’s Hands.

Favorite Scripture:
Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needed not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
2 Timothy 2:15

My Godly Joural

I said to myself,

“Tell me how I’m supposed to breathe with no air, can’t live, can’t breathe with no air. It’s how I feel whenever YOU ain’t there. It’s no air, no air. Got me out here in the water so deep, tell me how you gon’ be without me. If you ain’t here, I just can’t breathe. It’s just no air. I mean, I’m not scared of lions, and tigers, and bears, but I’m scared of loving YOU. I don’t know why we love LOVE when LOVE seems to hate us.”

Within an instant, God heard me and He responded to me,

“My precious dear, I have told you numerous times that I will NEVER leave you. I’m the one who breathe the breath of life in your body and you’ve became a living soul. Everything I done for you, I done it all in love, and you should, too. Of course you can’t do anything without me so that is why you should ALWAYS give ME all the credit! Now, what’s this I’m hearing about you saying that you don’t understand why you Love LOVE when LOVE seems to hate you and all people? Have you been reading my BEST-SELLER lately? You love Me because I’ve heard your cry and pitted every groan. Long as you live when trouble rise, you will haste unto my throne. My love is so timeless and unconditional, I sent my own Son that whosoever believe in HIM shall not perish but have life EVERLASTING. You should’ve known that about now! You should’ve known Me long enough to know that I AM LOVE! I do NOT hate you, I hate sin! I create dark, light, good and evil but that doesn’t mean that I hate you. I’m everything to you because I made you and you’re everything you are because I love you. I even told many times not to worry about love. Need I remind you? You will be loved, as long as I AM existing. Ever wonder why you’re out here in the water so deep? It’s my way of cleansing you of what’s breaking my heart, not drowning you! You are not in Pharaoh’s army so act like a warrior in MY Army!! Yeah, you may not be scared of lions, tigers, and bears but you’re to sleep with them to get to where you are now. But I thought I taught you I have NOT given you the spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a discerning mind. You have no choice but to fear Me because without Me, you wouldn’t have these 3 things that I have given you. From now on, I want you to understand one thing: Everything that I do, I do it in LOVE. So take my yoke upon you and learn enough of Me to love as I do and then, you will be a than child of the King of kings!”

A Letter to Myself

Dear Self,
I know that I’m not perfect and I’ve sinned,
But I’m still loved by the LORD from deep within.
I have so much lessons to learn from all my mistakes,
So just because I sinned and came short of His glory doesn’t mean I’m fake.
Yeah, I admit that I’ve behaved like a foolish, self-centered woman,
I may have done all of dirt but I’m forgiven;
I may have been through hell all my life but I’m still standing,
I may have some scars on my body but I’m healing.
I’ve made bad decisions but I’ve made decisions
And in spite of all my wrongdoings, HE restores me joy and salvation.
Every day and night, on my knees I pray,
To not allow my labor, my living, my singing, my giving, and my praying to be in vain;
I am a 27 year old daughter of the King of kings who have denied herself,
Because I learned how to do bad all by myself;
I’ve lived the life of Wykeshia Lavel McCallister,
Nobody could’ve live that life but me because I’m one of God’s precious creatures.

I Love You but my FATHER loves me BEST!!!

Yours truly,
The Woman In The Mirror