MAN CRUSH MONDAY: The REAL Mr. Right

Ladies, if you are one of those ladies that are single and wondered if Mr. Right exists, I got the main solution to that. Mr. Right, to me, only exist when you may be dreaming of, but the REAL Mr. Right is the one that is chosen by God Himself that every single lady should be praying for.

It’s just like the R&B singer Bobby V said in his song “Words”, ‘A good man’s hard to find,

That’s one of your favorite lines, But finding wifey ain’t no easier.’ Even Jay Songbird said the same thing from his song “Meant for Me”, ‘True love is really hard to find, If you’re not there in the right place at the right time, Lookin’ for that special one.’ To be honest, these singers really proved a point or two.

So, now that I’ve given a little bit of examples, here’s some guidelines for allowing

the REAL Mr. Right to look for you.

GOLDEN RULE #1: AVOID MR. WRONG

MAN #1: Mr. Player

He’s the type of guy that loves to play games. Yes, he thinks he got the game and he treats you like you’re his game piece. He’s easy to fool you, and here’s the tip: Your heart is like glass so don’t fall in love with this guy because he will break your heart. He kin to Mr. Cheater so avoid these guys.

MAN #2: Mr. Psycho

Ladies, please be very careful around this guy. Even if he’s a felon, be careful. He will love you and he will be charming and tender for one minute, and at the next minute he will fight you or worse! Don’t think that it’s love for a man to hit you because it’s NOT! Stay far, far away from that guy, please!!

MAN #3: Mr. Cheap

If you don’t set an expensive price on yourself, Ladies, then this guy will treat you like you’re so cheap. It’s important for you to value yourself and you mustn’t give your love away to some man that’s cheap because love is the most expensive gift.

MAN #4: Mr. Lazy

He’s the type of man who doesn’t do anything to help out, and you’ll get real fed about him. A guy who doesn’t work, doesn’t cook, doesn’t clean doesn’t lift a finger to do anything, he’s so multinegative. You definitely don’t need a guy like him. He’s the cousin to Mr. User who kin to Mr. Scrub.

GOLDEN RULE #2: TAKE EXPECTATIONS FOR YOURSELF

Ladies, learn to take expectations for yourselves. Just like what the honorable Judge Faith Jenkins said before: “A man that says they love you but you are not his girlfriend, a man that says they love you but they’re blocking you on Facebook, a man that says they love you but they refuse to pay for something, He’s not a lover, honey. He’s a user.” Remember that.

Moving on to Man #5…

MAN #5: Mr. Know It All

Now, Ladies, you really need to take notes because what I’m about to say is true. Whatever you do, Do Not, and I repeat, DO NOT fall in love with this guy because he knows how to say the right things- – thinking that he’s GOD.  Well, guess what. He is NOT God. In case you might ask

yourself what are the signs of Mr. Know It All, well, Ladies, I’ll give you some tips on that.

TIP #1: If you tell him that you have feelings towards him and he gives this textbook line saying: “I already know that, but I only see as a friend”, that’s the one of the signs of Mr. Know It All.

TIP #2: If he thinks he’s so smart, do the unthinkable: Challenge him by giving him a quiz to test how smart he is.  Challenge him the following questions:

1.) What’s a nacho?

2.) Name the 12 Tribes of Israel and what the 3 books of the Bible to find them

3.) Name the 12 Disciples and where to find them in the Bible.

At the end of this topic, I’ll give the answers to those 3 later. But right now, let’s move on to the next man on the avoiding list. I’ll explain the answers later.

MAN #6: Mr. Married

Ladies, that’s the guy you really to be careful with. He can be an angel to you but the moment when you find out about his marital status, you’d feel awful. They can easily fool you to think that he’s single when knowing he’s married. Regardless if he has a pending divorce, he technically still married. Too many women falling for married men like this one. In case you happen to forget, it’s against God’s Law for married men to be messing around with unmarried women. Guess you see why they called these men like him “Sugar Daddies”.

MAN #7: Mr. Insecure

Ladies, beware of men that are stalking you and controlling your every move! This guy kin to Mr. Stalker and Mr. Control Freak. Whatever you do, DO NOT allow these guys disrespect you, boss you around, or stomp on your heart because you have feelings.

Now, about Mr. Know It All…these are the answers to the three questions.

1.) A nacho is when you see someone that’s been taken, it means something’s nachos.

2.) Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Dan, Naphtali, Gad, Asher, Zebulun, Joseph, and Benjamin

Genesis 29-30; Numbers 1; and Revelation 7 are the 12 Tribes of Israel.

3.)  Simon Peter, Andrew, James, John, Philip, Bartholomew, Thomas, Matthew, James son of Alphaeus, Thaddaeus (Judas), Simon the Zealot, and Judas Iscariot (replaced by Matthias)

Matthew 10:2-4; Mark 3:14-19; Luke 6:13-16; and Acts 1:13-26 are the 12 Disciples.

Now that I’ve kept it real on the qualities of Mr. Wrong, let’s talk about the qualities of Mr. Right in biblical terms.

MAN #1: Mr. Boaz

He’s a very fine man with such great wealth. He’s a God-fearing man that is doing something productive with his life such as being a landowner of Bethlehem and a kinsman of Naomi’s late husband, Elimelech. See, Ruth? She didn’t go out her way to find a man so what did she do? She glean in the fields, where she met Boaz.

MAN #2: Mr. Xerxes

This is the king of his own kingdom. You remember Vashti? He already kicked her to the curb for refusing the king’s commandment and following that, guess who he chose as Persia’s Next Top Queen. You guessed it, Esther! So, if you want a guy that’ll treat you like a Queen, you better pray that the man has the same quality like Mr. Xerxes.

MAN #3: Mr. Job 29 Man

Now, Ladies, this the guy that would love to be a husband to a Proverb 31 Woman. Like Boaz and Xerxes, this special man will not only treat you like a Diamond, but he will remind you are virtuous and you’re worth way more than rubies.

Now that I’ve introduced you to the 3 in 1 Mr. Right, understand that a Godly man like him, it takes a handsome man to open your eyes, an intelligent man to open your mind, and a gentleman to open your heart. With that being said, the REAL Mr. Right should be the man that every lady should be praying!

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