The way I see it, I believe that in any relationship/ marriage, the question on every man’s mind involving drama is this: Why it is that when a woman wants a good man and she gets it, and she does everything in her power to drive him crazy? In other words, women in general can be hopelessly insecure and incurably unhappy simply just by nagging, asking questions, and not giving him some space all because she felt like she’s the queen that has powers over him.
Like the Bible story of Samson and Delilah, the woman who married and betrayed Samson first for revealing the answer to his riddle to the Philistines by whining things like “You don’t love me” and things like that. Of course woman can be deceitful, too, just to stir up drama.
As for deceitful Delilah, she have much power over Samson just by whining, nagging, and pushing him so hard for get him to spill out the secret of his supernatural strength. And Oh, snap! The cat was out of the bag when she did what she was paid to do when cut off his hair that caused him to lose his God-giving power, and all of the sudden she felt bad about the whole thing.
See, when guys gets real fed up with any drama they either felt like they’re unappreciated or wanted to call it quits and move on. I asked my guy friend to explain why godly guys including himself don’t like drama and his honest response was this: “Gospel over gossip. Spread the right WORD.” That right there really proved a major point! What he is saying is that instead of stirring up drama, we should stir up the gifts that God has given us. Instead of spreading lies, rumors, and gossiping, we should be spreading the good news what Jesus brought!!
To really explain why Guys Don’t Like Drama, points at these scriptures:
“But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another. But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do” (Galatians 5:15-17).
God is love,